Two adults should always be upfront about what they want and this way they can communicate better. If one adult has a different desire in a relationship, it probably won't work out. For example, they might be looking for a casual relationship and nothing too serious. The other person is looking to get married within a few months and settle a family. This is all too much for the person who just wants a casual relationship. They draw back because they are afraid of getting hurt or sucked into a place where they won't be able to enjoy the opposite sex.

Most adults know that it is important to meet in safe places, otherwise if something goes wrong - no one would be there to save them. This is very true if you are woman but keep in mind, it can also be dangerous for men as well. If you are participating in online dating, you always need to be extra careful. You should at least know the person's first and last name before going on a date, a few things about their life, plus their living situation. Meeting up with anyone in a short amount of time is dangerous and you will look desperate. Try to take things slowly, even if you are dating multiple people. You want to be sure the other person is interested in you.